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I kinda know how the various religions deal with death but here’s a summary

1. LikeDislikeReligions provide diverse beliefs and rituals around death, ranging from afterlife and resurrection to reincarnation and spiritual purification, shaping how communities mourn and honor the deceased.ChristianityChristians generally believe in an afterlife where moral choices determine entry into Heaven or Hell. Catholics also recognize Purgatory, a temporary state for purification, and prayers for the deceased can aid their journey to Heaven. Funerals often include prayers, hymns, and scripture readings, with Catholic services sometimes featuring a wake and Mass, while Protestant services may emphasize a celebration of life. Eastern Orthodox traditions include incense, chanting, and multiple memorial services to honor the dead and comfort the living endwithcare.org+1.IslamMuslims believe the soul continues after death and awaits Judgement Day, when the righteous enter Jannat (Paradise) and sinners go to Jahannam (Hell). Rituals include the Talqeen, a prayer for the dying, and Ghusl, the ritual washing of the body. The deceased is buried facing Mecca, and mourning typically lasts three days, though widows observe a longer period called iddah of four months and ten days endwithcare.org+1.JudaismJewish beliefs about the afterlife are less defined, but death rituals are highly structured. Burial usually occurs within 24 hours, followed by Shiva, a seven-day mourning period at home, and recitation of the Kaddish prayer for 11 months for parents or 30 days for other relatives. The Yahrzeit marks the annual anniversary of death with a candle and prayer. These practices provide communal support and continuity of memory endwithcare.org+1.HinduismHindus view death as part of the cycle of reincarnation. The body, composed of five elements, is cremated as a final ritual, often performed by the son or closest male relative. The soul may experience good or bad consequences before rebirth, and salvation (moksha) is the ultimate goal. Death rites are considered the 41st sacrament, performed by the living on behalf of the deceased refinery29.com+2.BuddhismBuddhists believe in reincarnation and the transitional state of Bardo, where the spirit prepares for rebirth. The ultimate aim is Nirvana, liberation from suffering. Meditation and chanting are common practices for the dying and their families. In some cultures, such as Tibet, sky burials return the body to nature, symbolizing detachment and impermanence

Jewish rituals, which I am most familiar with, include covering your mirrors so you won’t see the pain in your face, tearing your clothing, and pinning a small black cloth on your clothes to let others know you are in mourning.

and I can’t neglect Native Americans

Native American death rituals are diverse, deeply spiritual practices that honor the deceased, guide their spirit, and maintain harmony with nature and the community.

Spiritual Beliefs and the Afterlife

Many Native American tribes view death not as an end but as a transition of the soul. The deceased may join ancestors, enter a spirit world, or be reincarnated into a newborn family member honoryou.com+1. For example, the Lakota Sioux believe in a Spirit World where the deceased reunite with loved ones, while the Hopi envision a journey to the underworld to unite with relatives honoryou.com. Some tribes believe spirits linger temporarily and require prayers, songs, or offerings to guide them safely honoryou.com+1.

Funeral Practices

Funeral customs vary widely among tribes but often include ceremonial preparation of the body, rituals to honor the deceased, and community participation honoryou.com+1. Common practices include:

• Body preparation: Washing with yucca, dressing in special garments, or adorning with feathers and jewelry alivehospice.org+1.
• Face painting: Some tribes, like the Dakota or Sioux, paint the deceased’s face red, symbolizing life traditionscustoms.com.
• Burial methods: Ground burial, scaffold burials, cremation, or leaving the body in trees or platforms to decompose naturally honoryou.com+1.
• Offerings: Food, tools, weapons, or personal items may be buried with the deceased to aid their journey 

and the Inuit

once when I was in Canada I bought an awesome Inuit carving of a boat carrying a dead body so

The Inuit are indigenous people living in the arctic regions of North America, sharing cultural similarities and a common ethnic origin. The Inuit do not worship any gods.

This community has a natural approach and believes, in particular, in a “Mother Earth”. The earth, the sea, the plants, and the animals are all part of the divine, belong to the whole, and live in brotherhood with all living beings. In their minds dying is just a crossing from the physical world toward the spiritual world. They also believe that every being, whether human, animal, or vegetable, has a soul or a breath that lasts after death.

In Inuit cosmology, the soul is an eternal part of a transcendent whole,  symbolically situated in the groin area. It is invisible to most, but discernible to shamans.

A subterranean world lives under the earth and the sea searching for purification. After this expiation stage, they may travel to the Land of the Moon to find peace and eternal rest. All those who have lived a pure life or have already purified themselves can enter that Land of the Moon. The others continue their reincarnations cycle on Earth.

The Inuit consider that every human being consists of a physical body, a soul (a shadow having a reduced shape of the body), and a name. The living human body is composed of breath and vitality.

When death occurs, the body gives up its breath and vitality. After death, all body’s components break up. The body himself decomposes, the soul leaves to join the land of the dead, the name is transmitted to another person, while the breath returns to the Silla.

Silla represents the universe, an invisible force shared between all living beings, the primordial element of all that exists, the breath of life, and the essence of all movement. Silla controls everything that happens in an individual’s life.

The Inuit suffering from disease are isolated, with some food, into a small snow house or a hut. They cope with death without fear or resistance, with courage. When the end is close, friends and family stop visiting them, and they are facing death alone.

The custom of sick isolation preserves the belongings from destruction, because if someone dies inside the family hut, everything has to be destroyed or thrown away. The relatives empties the dead’s house and purifies it through the cleaning and fumigation processes. 

When a death is proclaimed, they fall to the ground and weep, as part of a traditional, solemn, mourning ritual. The family members are exclusively allowed to touch the body.

People from the whole village come and drop down, around the dead body, everyday life objects which could be useful to the deceased in the other world: hunting weapons or fishing utensils for men, or sewing needles for the women.

The man’s body is accompanied by his clothes and his hunter-fisherman’s devices. The woman is surrounded by the sewing instruments, the pots, the lamps, knives and some objects she loved when alive.

The objects surrounding the deceased and the tomb are treated with great respect and are not removed as long as the identity of the grave’s owner is known.

The corpse is kept overnight in the snow house, wrapped in a shroud of animal skin (usually from a seal) and leather thongs (to force his spirit to stay with the body until he arrives at the final burial place). The placement of the deceased’s feet varies according to age. 

To not bring bad luck to the hunters, the nearest relatives remove the deceased through a pierced wall in front or the back of the house. They avoid using a sledge, as it must remain with the deceased. Also, the dogs are never allowed to draw a sledge in that situation. Afterwards the body is placed on a hilltop, at the bottom of a cave, or behind his house. The cold from the outside ensures its perfect preservation.

A predominant part of the Inuit buries their dead under a pile of stones. Sometimes they may lay the body outside to be eaten by the birds. The Inuit descending from Asia used to burn their dead, and those from the east side of Greenland used to send them to the sea.

After returning from the burial, the relatives go back inside the hut for three days to mourn the loss of the deceased.

During that period, they are not allowed to dress their hair and have their nostrils covered with a fragment of deerskin. If the death occurred inside the hut, they leave it forever.